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Spiritual, Self Help, Relationships / Zen
Date Published: October 15, 2022
Build your relationships upon an Unshakeable Foundation, based upon Eternal Principles of Real Love.
Based upon the teachings of All World Scriptures, including Zen, the book explores the difference between Real and Counterfeit Love. As we do, it is easy to see that all suffering in relationships is due to being caught in the trap of Counterfeit Love.
This is a Book of Practice, which provides many insights, exercises, turning points and interventions, so we can apply the powerful principles in all our relationships.
As we do, pain, upset and conflict dissolve on the spot.
About the Author
Brenda is a psychologist, author, speaker, playwright and long term practitioner of Zen.
Her work focuses upon integrating the practices and principles of East and West and making them real in our everyday lives.
Brenda offers on going Zen talks for the Morningstar Zen community, founded by Fr. Robert Kennedy, Roshi. She has spent many years involved in Interfaith work and dialogue. She also offered talks on Zen and Psychology at the New York Zendo for eight years.
For the past four years Brenda has presented a weekly podcast, Zen Wisdom For Your Everyday Life. Over the years she has provided many talks ad workshops dealing with personal and spiritual development and living an authentic, meaningful life.
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